My thirst was not quenched. I was dissatisfied. Not your body. All I needed was your love.
The hardest part about leaving toxic people is that you know when you leave, they won’t chase after you. They won’t be begging on their hands and knees for you like you would have done for them. They’ll just let you walk away, never even look at you in their rearview mirror, and move on like nothing has changed. It’s terrifying because you finally have to come to the cold hard realization that they never cared if you stayed.
Fuck, why she pricks like the thorns of a rose, but is as sweet as the aroma of its petals.
For me.. Its okay virtually, we can arrange time to meet. Cause for me I’m not dwell into the plessures of the body but sleep in the joys of the mind first. As long as I feel connection through our heavy conversation and having some of potential mate requirements.
We’re all just running. Some of us run towards hope, love or even the idea of it. Some of us are running away… from our past, our present and our future.
The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths.
These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern.
Beautiful people do not just happen.
(Elisabeth Kubler Ross)
Love is like giving someone a gun and hoping they won’t shoot you and then they do… the truth, everyone gonna do it, they all gonna pull the trigger and you’re the one to blame.
But you know what’s the fun part? You heal, with some time, tears, alcohol and you go right back to them
Everybody says destroy what destroys you. — But what if the thing destroying you is yourself?
The Society raises women to be insecure, depressed and anxious about what others think about them. This is exactly what’s wrong with our society. We Are treated like an object.
I think What we shud learning is how to have more respect for ourselves and be happy with ourselves, because you’re not an object! You’re woman, you’re a person and you’re beautiful.
Elu tahu ga van gogh bilang apa d akhir hidupnya : No-one has ever properly understood me, I have never fully understood anyone; and no-one understands anyone else
Why would we ever repeat something that was deeply uncomfortable? even though it was horrible, it was still a love relationship.
There was abuse but also, lets imagine a degree of familiarity, admiration, attachment and even tenderness just like what hakmer said. they may have been belittling but it is what we got used to. it is not nice as such but it feels comfortingly, compellingly familiar.
We end up feeling hurt in love > we end up causing hurt in love. We may end up doing the same thing to someone else, humiliating them in turn bossing them about, going cold on them, just when they are vulnerable to us. it is a primitive part of us thinks that the only way not to be abused it to be the abuser.
The investigation always start by tryn to understand ourselves, what did i suffer from the and of my early caregivers? emotional health means ecpanding on the number of people that we are free to fall in love with, and get used to something which might be eerily and challengingly, unfamiliar at firstly. being happy with someone who is properly and deeply good for us.
Isn’t it ironic, how diplomatic are we, we ignore those who adore us, adore those who ignore us, hurt those who love us, and love those who hurt us.